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	<title>Comments on: Don&#8217;t Do This to Mom and Dad</title>
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		<title>By: hill</title>
		<link>http://www.bostoncommoner.com/blog/archives/2004/12/13/dont-do-this-to-mom-and-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-339</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2004 15:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[jen, i know the guilt you were talking about.  i had an uncle that was very unsaved that i should have witnessed to, but didn&#039;t.  i had an opportunity, a huge one, when he was in hospice, but didn&#039;t take it.  i was scared of what he would think.  and now he is in hell. i lived with that for so long and hated myself, but then i realized that he was given plenty of opportunities to trust, but didn&#039;t and rejected Christ.  that was a hard point to come to, but i felt so much better after i did.  

as to watching grandmas go downhill...my paw paw just had really bad cancer, and maw maw isn&#039;t doing well either.  it is hard to realize that they are old and in mortal bodies.  that they may not be there someday when we go up to ohio.  i am close to my grandparents, but i still have that regret that i only see them twice a year too.  christmas and summer.  pretty sad.  

thank you for your post.  it got me thinking.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jen, i know the guilt you were talking about.  i had an uncle that was very unsaved that i should have witnessed to, but didn&#8217;t.  i had an opportunity, a huge one, when he was in hospice, but didn&#8217;t take it.  i was scared of what he would think.  and now he is in hell. i lived with that for so long and hated myself, but then i realized that he was given plenty of opportunities to trust, but didn&#8217;t and rejected Christ.  that was a hard point to come to, but i felt so much better after i did.  </p>
<p>as to watching grandmas go downhill&#8230;my paw paw just had really bad cancer, and maw maw isn&#8217;t doing well either.  it is hard to realize that they are old and in mortal bodies.  that they may not be there someday when we go up to ohio.  i am close to my grandparents, but i still have that regret that i only see them twice a year too.  christmas and summer.  pretty sad.  </p>
<p>thank you for your post.  it got me thinking.</p>
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		<title>By: jen d</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2004 18:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, guys. Thanks for taking the time to read another Novelized post. 

Mels, that&#039;s the only other &quot;nanyy&quot; I&#039;ve evr heard of. I have a vague memory of wishing we called her something that began with the letter &quot;G&quot; like everyone else :o) 

Tim, I&#039;m glad this post was in some way an encouragement to you. I wish you the best in the Lord with your own circumstances.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, guys. Thanks for taking the time to read another Novelized post. </p>
<p>Mels, that&#8217;s the only other &#8220;nanyy&#8221; I&#8217;ve evr heard of. I have a vague memory of wishing we called her something that began with the letter &#8220;G&#8221; like everyone else :o) </p>
<p>Tim, I&#8217;m glad this post was in some way an encouragement to you. I wish you the best in the Lord with your own circumstances.</p>
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		<title>By: timf</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2004 20:18:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this post. It means a lot to me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post. It means a lot to me.</p>
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		<title>By: mels</title>
		<link>http://www.bostoncommoner.com/blog/archives/2004/12/13/dont-do-this-to-mom-and-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-327</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2004 19:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[thanks for sharing your thoughts here, jen. it is a sobering situation, but you&#039;re right in that such circumstances show us how we can live differently. whether it be about ourselves, with our parents, with our friends, with whomever.

interesting that you should bring up the grandma names. i just had a conversation with rolf about that the other day. (he may already be a grandpa by now... his daughter was supposed to give birth yesterday.) 

growing up, i had some friends from church who called their grandma nanny. my grandma has always been &quot;grandma&quot; since i never knew my mother&#039;s mother. since my brother is older than i am (and the oldest grandson), he was the one who got to name some of other relatives. for example, my mother&#039;s father was always ol&#039; bud. and my mother&#039;s grandmother was g.g. (for great-grandmother?) anyway, what i think is really cute now is that my niece calls my father&#039;s mother g.g. too. funny how people get their names.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for sharing your thoughts here, jen. it is a sobering situation, but you&#8217;re right in that such circumstances show us how we can live differently. whether it be about ourselves, with our parents, with our friends, with whomever.</p>
<p>interesting that you should bring up the grandma names. i just had a conversation with rolf about that the other day. (he may already be a grandpa by now&#8230; his daughter was supposed to give birth yesterday.) </p>
<p>growing up, i had some friends from church who called their grandma nanny. my grandma has always been &#8220;grandma&#8221; since i never knew my mother&#8217;s mother. since my brother is older than i am (and the oldest grandson), he was the one who got to name some of other relatives. for example, my mother&#8217;s father was always ol&#8217; bud. and my mother&#8217;s grandmother was g.g. (for great-grandmother?) anyway, what i think is really cute now is that my niece calls my father&#8217;s mother g.g. too. funny how people get their names.</p>
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